The article "Tech Abuse and Your Child: What You Can Do" talks about family, it has been released by Susan Dunn, MA, Personal and Professional Development Coach.
New technology brings new ways to stay in touch and guard your
child's safety but it also brings new ways to steal, cheat,
bully, act irresponsibly, and harm others.
Bullying via camera cell phones and Internet is an international
problem and misuse starts younger than you might imagnie.
BBC
reports that one in nine 5-9 year olds has a mobile phone, and
over a third of primary school children with mobile phones have
received name-calling text msesages. 10% have received threats
at the level of “bullying”.
CAMERA CELLPHONES
Preteens and teens use cell phone cameras to photograph peers
and humiliate them over the Internet, such as photographing a
student naked in the locker room. Text messages are also used
for harassment and cheating on exams.
Legislation is starting about the privacy aspects of such
photography, beginning with restrictions on federally-owned
land. The prviate sector is also swinging into action.
The YMCA
in Australia has forbidden the use of cellphone cameras in their
facilities.
IDENTITY THEFT
You should also be aware that somebody standing near you at the
checkout counter with a cell phnoe could photograph your credit
card and have access to all the information.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
While we all wait to see if social norms will develop regarding
the use of cell phones, what do you think?
Personally, I
wouldn’t conut on it or it would already have happened.
Here are
some things you can do:
1.Be procative.
Work with school officilas about bullying. Ray Hughes, violence
prevention coordinator with the Thames Valley District School
says a classroom or seat change can help the bullied, and
bullies need consistent non-violent enforcement of consequences
for their actions both at home and at school.
2.Work to establish Emotional Intelligence progrmas at school
and at work that teach respect and social norms.
3.Observe good manners with your tech equipment and teach your
children that with privilege comes responsibility.
Pay attention, do your job and supervise. One middle schooler
given a cell phone quickly racekd up a bill over $1,500.
Establish rules with your child or teneager and enforce them.
Don’t allow your children to have computers in their bedrooms,
teach them respect for others, and educate them in the use of
any potentially harmful object (just as do bikes, microwaves,
power tools, electric knives, gas grills, guns and cars).
Go over what bullying is and make direct inquireis of your
child. Here is a list of symptoms of both bullied and bully -
http://www.Canoe.Ca/NewsStand/LondonFreePress/News/2003/09/02/174
030.Html . It's consdiered the preferred bullying method of
girls, BTW.
4.Get informed.
Know as much as your cihld does and monitor. For instance, you
can check on cheating and bullying by cilcking into the phone’s
text messaging history.
5.Speak up and teach your child to.
School officials say 85% of bullying occurs when there is only a
peer present.
Both school bulyling and work bullying (
http://www.Webstrategies.Cc/mobbing.Htm ) rely on the victim
remaining silent.
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